30 HARI 30 MALAM

RAMADHAN....

PESANAN

30 HARI 30 MALAM...

CUTE KAN...

Mari baca buku...

Okey..ni citer hari Sabtu (22/9/2012)

En Asben ade kenduri rumah En Bos dia pkl 1.00pm..kenduri doa selamat..Ai tkleh ikut yer sebab awal2 dia dh bgtau dia akn pegi ngan kengkawan opis. Okey fine..ai lg suke tk ikut leh lepak kat rumah layan hindustan ngan Aisya...

Pkl 5.00pm baru en asben ai balik tp b4 that dia dh Whatssapp:

Asben : Mama nk pegi KLCC tak?..nak crk buku sikit

(Curlass soklan kan..dia tny Mama nk pegi tk? pdhal dia yg nk pegi)

Mama : Erm..boleh ajer..(fullstop)

Asben : Ok..siap..dh nk smpai rmh..bukak pintu pagar

(Giler cepat...time tu nk pegi time tu baru tny..time tu suruh siap...hebattt..igt ai mandi 5 saat ker..harus nk main2 buih sabun dulu kan..hahaha)

Ai pon p bukak pagar msuk rmh mandi ala kobau..pkai bedak sikit( x perlu makeup 2-3 jam yer sbb ai kan pkai product Ex so kulit lebih mulus..cewaahh)..pkai lipsgloss sikit sbb dh nk abis (sedey T__^)..done

Okeh..asben dh balik ai & Aisya terus lompat masuk dlm keta (giler ganas main lompat jer)..moh kite ke KLCC!!!

Sampai KLCC tuju terus Kinokuniya..tp ai suruh asben pg ngan Aisya jer..ai nk ke ISetan crk lips gloss Shizens ai yg dh tinggal ujung2 nyawe...

Masuk jer ISetan terus nmpk kaunter Shizens..amoi tu mcm tau2 jer ai crk lip gloss die..dia terus promote..ai malas nk dgr citer panajng lebar dia terus ckp sya nk beli ni...pastu sempat lgk dia promote bedak 2 in 1 dia...hooooo...sorry yer..ai dtg nk beli lips gloss jer..tlg jgn racuni pikiran ai ngan bende2 lain...finally itu amoi give up & bwk ai g kounter byr...dlm hati "Phewwww....SELAMATTTTT"....

Dah bayar ai terus tuju ke Kinokuniya...crk asben & Aisya tk jumpe..last2 gi kat Management nyer rak..tibe2 nmpk la buku ni 

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Memang dah lama crk..baru jumpe aper lgk terus belek2 isi kandungan..sesambil tu tgn dok mengWhatssapp en asben..mane ko pigi daaaa....rupenyer dia kat ISetan dok crk aku..ceh!!len kali tny la dulu kan...aku paksa dia naik blk kat kedai buku nk tjuk buku ni..haruslah kena tjuk kat dia sbb dia yg bayo...hua..hua..hua!!

Bila dia naik ai tjuk buku ni..bersedia dgn soklan dia yer:

Mama : Abh, cube tgk buku ni..nila buku yg mama nk beli tu

Asben : Knp nk beli? Kompeni tkde buat training ker pasal business writing seme ni?

Mama : Kompeni mmg ade buat training tp budget dept tk cukup...dlm buku ni ade tulis  pasal email etiquette, buss writing skills, communication..bla..bla..bla....

Asben : Buat apa nk baca kesah tulis email?..tkde bende lain ker nk bace..selame buat email mcmana?

Haaaa....kan bertalu2 soklan dia.....letih ni nk susun ayat

Mama : Mmg la buat email selama ni tk pkai buku tp ni blh wat rujukan supaya email kita ayatnyr lebih elok...so, our email wont kill us back (haaaa...kan ai dah terspeking London..ai mmg camni..kalau geram jer ckp omputih...hehehe ^__^)

Asben : Okey..okey..beli la..xyah la xplain panjang lebar...

Mama : Yesss!!...taktik menjadik..

Tk tgu lame amik buku terus g kaunter sblm en asben ai tukor pikiran...

Harge buku RM52.95 jer pon yg nk kena soal siasat bagai tu.

Buku ni ditulis oleh SHIRLEY TAYLOR yg kini menetap di Singapore dan dh menulis since 1991. Okey..dah..dah..kalau nk tau kisah idup dia korang bacela kat link tu yer.

Now, ai nk bace buku..

Bai!

**** Berusahalah !! *****

Hadoiii...lapaq sunggoh petang2 hari ni..mule la mate ngantok tk boleh blah..kalau blh diklip kelopak mate ni mmg ai dh klip sangkut kat awning tudung jgn bagi tertutup..hehehe..boleh?

Bila lapaq mule la teringat goreng pisang...cekodok...keropok....kat opis lama...mmg haven siot masa kat opis lama dulu. Siap kitorg kumpul duit singgit sorg p beli goreng pisang bagai. Sampai boleh wat kenduri la petang2..tapi itu semua tinggal kenangan..huhuhu...

ginila ngopenyer pisang goreng depan opis lamaku...hwaaaaa.....nak goreng pisangggg!!!!

Sejak dok PJ ni mknan terhad..bukan sbb xdo tempat mkn tapi aku ni yang ngade2 x bpe nak lalu mkn kat sini sbb lokasi tmpt mkn yg terlalu terdedah pade pencemaran udara..(asap kete,lori,moto,jentolak,kapal selam..seme ader)

HELPPPPP!!! T________________T

Jadi, pagi2 beli bekpes tapau sekali lunch..tapi mana lalu beb hari2 meehoon, kueh teow, nasi lemak...naik biru jgk muke nk telan hari2. Tapi, yg peliknyer dlm tk bape mkn nasik pon badan naik..asal timbang jer naik..asal naik je aku timbang...sentap mak dik non bila tgk nombor kat penimbang tu asik naik..naik..dan naikkkkk......argghhhhhh...katakan itu hanya bayangan semata2...tidakkkk!!!

Jadi aku bertekad utk DIET...(kononnnn..tk sempat tghari mak meroyan carik nasik uolls).  Aku nak jadik mcm Ashwaria Rai (betul ker eja ni...) yg dulu..bkn yg sekarang..sebab realitinyr aku sama mcm Ash yg sekarang (bile nk kurus niii...)

Demi utk mencapai target aku tu, semalam aku & member opis p berjoging kat Bkt Jalil (haruslah kena location yg jauh dr org..nt peminat dtg mtk sain kan dah sentap nk joging..bajet retis ler ni )

Dengan semangat bkobar2 niat kami yg tulus suci murni tu berjaya dilaksanakan..dan kami berasa kurus dari biase..pdhal joging nyr tk seberape..gelak jer lebih...tp xper..janji keluaq segala peluh jantan yg dok btapa lama dlm badan ni...

Jadi, dengan penuh keazaman..kami akan meneruskan cita2 kami sampai bulan puase akan dtg. Kalau boleh bulan pose pon kami nk jogging..(alasan x nk pose ler ni..) hehehe

****berusahalah*****

WORKING WITH YOU IS KILLING ME

If you find yourself frustrated with a colleague whose incompetence is driving you crazy, a boss who gets angry when you're not a mind reader, or an employee who challenges your authorithy, chances are you're caught in an emotional trap at your job

The solution is simple : Take control of your own response. In this pragmatic, insightful guide, psychotherapist Katherine Crowley and business consultant Kathi Elster teach you how to eliminate your workplace woes step by easy step

Through quizzes, case examples, and field-tested stratergies, you'll learn how to handle any bad work relationship. With your newfound emotional skills, you'll be able to

Manage an ill-tempered boss before he or she explodes

Detach from coworkers whose irritating habits ruin the day

Defend yourself from idea-pilfering rivals

Get out of the grip of toxic relationships

Protect your work territory from "boundary busters"

Break out of the limiting roles that box you in

Parent your difficult employees to get the results you want

..... and much more

A GUIDE TO PROPER HIJAB FOR LADIES =D

Hijab, an awesome pride for ladies!

Hijab in Islam, is basically a “dress code” for Muslim women in public. Many perceive hijab as “traditional” and a form of oppression; but truth is, hijab protects and safeguards women from harassment! The wisdom behind hijab is to minimize sexual enticement and most importantly, it is a form of obedience to our Lord, Allah. Take hijab as your pride, and Insyallah, you will become a better Muslimah.

The most basic form of hijab is to cover the whole body, except the hands up to the wrist. Take note that hijab is not only about covering your head with a headscarf, but it’s about covering your body too! A hijab isn’t complete until both requirements (head and body) are covered

Related verse from the Quran: ♦”… that they (the believing women) should draw veils over their bosoms and not display their beauty except to their husbands, their fathers…” [ An-Noor 24:31 ]

A proper hijab requires one to wear loose clothes in order to avoid “showing” those beautiful curves! The Prophet (pbuh) has warned us that women who are dressed yet naked (ie: tight-fitting clothes) will receive harsh punishment in Hell (nauzubillah).

Related hadith: •The Prophet (pbuh) said: “There are two types of people in Hell-fire whom I did not see: People who have with them whips that are like the tails of cow; they strike people with them. And women WHO ARE DRESSED YET NAKED, who are Mumilat (ie: who shake their shoulders when they walk, who draw the attention of those who are looking at them) and Ma’ilat, (ie: they walk in a slanting manner, strutting with a kid on fluidity of motion, so as to attract others)… they will NOT enter Paradise, nor will they smell its fragrance whereas its fragrance would be smelt from such and such distance” [ Sahih Muslim, Book 24, Chapter 26 #5310 ]

Think that headscarf or long skirt of yours is solid enough? Look again, it might be transparent and people are able to see the shape of your hair bun or legs! Whatever material or fabric you put on yourself; make sure they are not transparent!

Ladies, keep your attire or outfit simple and modest! There’s no need to be flashy in order to attract the attention of others! Most importantly, it should be free of anything that may lead to arrogance, self-conceited, pride and riya’. As ladies, we are to display Allah’s blessings upon us in our clothing, but do it without going to the extreme of wastage or extravagance.

Related hadith: •The Prophet (pbuh) said: “He who trailed his garment out of pride, Allah would not look towards him on the Day of Resurrection” [ Sahih Muslim, Book 24, Chapter 8 #5195 ]

“Are you a girl… or a boy?” Is the type of question other people shouldn’t be asking when it comes to an individual, and we should avoid it at all costs! Dressing up/ looking as the opposite gender is dangerous to self, as it challenges the pride and it brings confusion to others. So ladies, be proud of your girly self! :)

Related hadith: •”The Prophet (pbuh) cursed the man who dresses like a woman and the woman who dresses like a man” [ Abu Dawood, 4/86 ]

Why bother dressing up the others (ie: the unbelievers) when you, as a Muslimah, have your own identity to be proud of? By imitating them outwardly, it might lead to imitating them inwardly (beliefs, characteristics). Muslim ladies too, have their own style and fashion to be proud of! :)

Let's Cover Our Aurah

By Loosen Our ClothingBy Lowering Our Hijab
Down To Our Chest...

Learn from Mistakes

Making mistakes can be a painful experience for you and others, but it's part of being human and will ultimately help you develop character, self-awareness and understanding for others. Whether you're an average Joe or a world leader, everyone makes mistakes and everyone can learn from them. Approaching your flubs with dignity and humility can help you turn a mistake into an opportunity

Instructions

Admit your mistake. All too often, both in a work environment and at home, people refuse to own up to their mistakes, preferring to pass the buck. Naturally, there's a fear of repercussions, but you'll be surprised to find that most people respect someone confident and mature enough to admit his mistake, and in the end the punishment, if there is one, will be much more lenient

Identify the seriousness of the mistake. You should honestly assess the type of mistake you've made before you decide what to do next. Obviously, there's no need to cry over spilled milk or own up to things that have little to no affect on others. But mistakes that cause others (or yourself) to suffer or that in some other way have larger repercussions are certainly worth addressing.

Analyze your mistake. Ask yourself whether this is a mistake you've made before. Repeat offenses suggest a pattern of behavior that is worth exploring. Why did you make the mistake? Was the mistake accidental or did you know what you were doing? You need to be brutally honest with yourself if you hope to address the causes of your mistakes, whether they be lack of attentiveness or a deeper character flaw.

Apologize. If you've determined that the mistake you've made has had a negative affect on others, say that you're sorry. While you can explain what you're doing to change your behavior, don't make excuses or justify the mistake. That is not a true apology. Keep in mind that it may take some time to earn back the trust of the person you've injured.

Learn. Having made amends with others, it's time to make amends with yourself. If your mistake was made because of lack of training, for example, take a class. If the mistake was a result of selfishness, ignorance, arrogance and so on, you need to make a conscious effort to change those tendencies. If you practice generosity, compassion and humility you will find that they soon become more natural to you.

Move on. Dwelling on a mistake can stymie personal growth. Wallowing in self-loathing and regret can lead to a downward spiral that may end in giving up rather than taking action to change. Give yourself a break, and remember that everyone makes mistakes

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Notes: Ekceli..this article adalah utk diriku sendiri yg hilang daya pertimbangan diri bersoping online..seperti yg telah aku ceritakn dlm n3 aku yg lepas...='(

So....dr kesilapan tu aku belajar..Yaaa!!!!Aku belajar dari kesilapan..Sekarang aku tk lagi soping sesuke hati malah sekarang aku akan ligat menyopingkn org..??Mesti korg mcm tk paham kan. Aku skrg dh start wat bisness tudung ONLINE...sekali lagik dimaklumkan ONLINE!!...hehehe....nama online Page aku ialah Qistyna Boutique...sempena nama anak aku yg skrg dh pandai kondem aku asal aku pkai tudung baru.."Mama...ni tudung baru ker..Iyer la aku jwb. Pastu dia ckp "cantik mama pkai tudung ni..acha tkder pon baju baru"...reaksi aku...gulppp!!

LETTING GO OF GUILT AND REGRETS

Make peace with yourself and the mistakes in the past which cannot be undone. Learn from those lessons and move on. Your experience has given you a new perspective and you will know how best to face it the next time...

Allow yourself to LIVE instead of EXIST..

DANCE LIKE NOBODY'S WATCHING

LOVE LIKE YOU'VE NEVER BEEN HURT

SING LIKE NOBODY'S LISTENING

LIVE LIKE IT'S HEAVEN ON EARTH...

Take 100% responsibilities for your life starting from today!!